If the remote cannot find the other device go to the settings > network in the main app (not remote). Then tap "reverse
mode". On most devices this brings up a system warning "allow app to access local network" or similar. Accept this.
Then turn off "reverse mode". Now the remote should be able to find the main app.
If not you can also try the same on the
remote app or even keep "reverse mode" on both devices. In this case the main app will try to find the remote.